Angel, there are two main things in any relationship---LOVE and then there is respect. Love is loving---respect is about caring. Doesn't seem like there is mch respect coming your way.

I was a heavy smoker for some 40 years and it cost me two good women [[[not at the same time!!!]]]. They hated tobacco but I just kept puffing away and they went away. MY FAULT.
When I stopped smoking I realised how disrespectful I had been to other people.

I think that if your other half wont respect you, you should open the door and point to the street even if just to keep your health. Damned hard if you are still in love.
So sorry this has happened to you.
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